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LGBTQ+ Tax & Cost Guide · Seattle

LGBTQ+ tax & cost-of-living guide: Seattle

Washington has no state income tax, but a capital-gains tax now applies to long-term gains over a per-person standard deduction ($278k for 2025, indexed annually) — 7% up to $1M of taxable gain and 9.9% above it. Seattle also has some of the highest home prices in the country and a state estate-tax exemption of only $3M — a fifth of the federal $15M — with no spousal portability. For LGBTQ+ tech households, that WA-specific combination is the whole ballgame.

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What actually drives after-tax cost of living for LGBTQ+ households in Seattle

The no-state-income-tax headline is real and meaningfully improves cash flow for Seattle tech workers — but WA's 7% capital-gains tax over the annual per-person threshold applies to RSU sales and other LTCG events. Two-earner LGBTQ+ tech households routinely blow past the threshold in an IPO or tender year.

More consequential for many households: Washington has its own state estate tax with a $3M exemption (no portability between spouses). That's a fifth of the federal exemption and catches a lot of Seattle same-sex couples with a Ballard/Capitol Hill house, a maxed-out 401(k), and vested Amazon/Microsoft stock.

The right response is usually a credit-shelter (bypass) trust structure that uses each partner's WA exemption at first death instead of letting it evaporate — plus deliberate gifting and DAF timing to keep the estate under the WA line. This is not something the default 'we just have a will' setup handles.

Rather than a generic cost-of-living index, this guide focuses on the levers that matter for LGBTQ+ households: state income tax, property tax, state estate/inheritance tax, and the legal and benefits overlay specific to same-sex couples and families. When you're ready to translate any of it into a plan, the Seattle city page is the right next step.

The tax & cost levers that matter most in Seattle

No WA state income tax

Wages, interest, and dividends are not taxed at the state level — a real advantage for high W-2 tech households vs. CA or NY peers.

WA capital-gains tax over threshold

Long-term gains above the per-person standard deduction ($278k for 2025, indexed annually) are taxed at 7%, rising to 9.9% on taxable gain above $1M. Charitable-gift and qualified family-owned small-business deductions apply; sequencing matters in IPO years.

WA estate tax — the real lever

Progressive up to 20%, with a $3M exemption per estate and NO spousal portability. Credit-shelter / bypass trust planning is essential for LGBTQ+ couples with real assets.

Roth-friendly regime

No state income tax makes Roth conversions and after-tax 401(k) contributions materially more attractive in Seattle than in high-tax states — the effective conversion cost is federal-only.

Seattle property tax

Roughly 0.8–1.0% of assessed value, meaningfully lower than CA or NY. Levies and special districts vary by neighborhood — a smaller factor than income and estate planning.

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Aequitas Financial was founded by Taylor Bell, a fee-only fiduciary planner. LGBTQ+ planning isn't a side specialty here — it's the practice.

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