
Deferred Compensation Planning for NYC LGBTQ+ households
NYC executives across finance, media, tech, and law routinely have Section 409A non-qualified deferred comp on top of qualified retirement plans. The election windows are annual and irrevocable, and the distribution scheduling determines the tax bill years later. For LGBTQ+ households, this is a couple-level planning conversation.
Schedule a free intro callWhy NYC LGBTQ+ households approach deferred comp planning differently
Non-qualified deferred comp (NQDC) is a powerful tool for high-income NYC executives — you can defer significant income into future years, potentially at a lower marginal rate or after a move out of NY. The catch is the election windows are annual and irrevocable, the assets are subject to the employer's general creditors, and the distribution schedule set today can't be changed later without a real haircut.
For an LGBTQ+ NYC household, deferred comp has to be planned against a same-sex spouse's separate income, the timeline for possible relocation (Florida, no-state-tax alternatives), and the household's actual cash-flow needs in retirement. A senior VP who defers heavily can end up with 15 years of concentrated distribution income at 65 — which may or may not be optimal depending on other assets.
Aequitas models the deferral decision annually, plans the distribution schedule with the couple's likely retirement geography, and coordinates it with equity comp, Social Security, and estate planning.
Deferred comp planning rolls up into the broader NYC city plan, which covers city, state, and federal tax and legal context in more depth.
What we plan for NYC deferred comp planning
Annual deferral election modeling
Actual after-tax projections for defer vs. take-now, factoring in future expected rates, NY residency, and cash-flow needs.
Distribution schedule design
Lump-sum vs. installments over 5, 10, or 15 years — chosen once at initial deferral, so it has to be right the first time.
Employer creditor risk
NQDC is an unsecured claim against the employer. For LGBTQ+ households considering large deferrals, understanding and pricing that risk matters.
Coordination with a spouse's plan
How NQDC distributions interact with a same-sex spouse's income, RMDs, and Social Security — planned as one household, not one exec.

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About the advisor
Aequitas Financial was founded by Taylor Bell, a fee-only fiduciary planner. LGBTQ+ planning isn't a side specialty here — it's the practice.
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